What to do When a girl is Visiting You for the First Time

If it seems to you that the most hellish experience is for the first time to speak with a girl who you like, then you are very mistaken. You can not even imagine what your girlfriend experienced when you first invited her to visit. She absolutely knows nothing about the conditions under which you live and what to expect from this visit. If you also live with your parents – this is a double strike in her head. By the way, most likely you also do not have a specific plan of action. Therefore, you should create the most relaxed atmosphere and behave like a gentleman. In this you will be helped by our slightly conservative, but very effective list that was compiled with the help of Russian brides.

Show Her Photos from Childhood. Not only Your own

Better do it yourself, and do not wait until your mother gets a photo album with compromising photos of your early youth. Better, of course, to prepare in advance a selection or to act honestly and show it as it really is. Photos should not be boring or too serious, leave space for laughter and surprised exclamations: “It was you ?! Such a fat boy! “Of course, not every girl should watch your family history. This, however you may say, is a very personal thing, even if you are not serious about it. But viewing old photos gives rise to a sense of trust, a person relaxes, and even learns something new about you. In addition, you will have a million topics for conversation. So sharing photos is the best start in your case.

Play Playstation. We Know You Have it

You can give your friend a joystick and check her gaming skills. At the same time determine her tastes regarding video games, because, perhaps, you live with her! If playing with her was cool, fun, then do not let this girl ever go, there are only a few such people on the planet. The games themselves are, in fact, the best option for two strangers who are not yet being ready for sex, and frank conversations are still too…difficult. The brain is distracted by the game task, sometimes joint, which brings together the girl and the guy. We recommend cooperative games, fighting games are for another level of relations.

Board Games are even Better

But computer games will never replace live communication, which is possible in the board games. For example, when I come to visit strangers, I always hope that the conversation will proceed either for a drink or for a good board game, otherwise, it just does not add up. With the girlfriend during the first visit to your place, the situation is identical. It is necessary to slow down and present communication in a playful form. Which game to choose? Of course, not in the style of D & D, where the party lasts a lot of time, and you have to spend much time to understand its rules. But the games-quiz will, on the contrary, be an excellent option. A girlfriend finds out about you, and you about her.

Let Her Play with Your Pet (Huh?!)

Girls definitely love animals, most of them exactly. And if you have at home some fluffy cat or a steep dog, then just let your girlfriend hold this cute creature. This will help her to relax, and communication will go with ease. Pets really connect people perfectly. Not Nokia. In addition, if you have a pet, the girlfriend will understand that you are caring and sensitive, and these qualities in the relationship are not in the last place.

Cook Dinner

Buy in the store quality wine, some juices (suddenly your girlfriend does not drink alcohol) and cook a delicious dinner, lunch or even breakfast. Just do not create an atmosphere of dating. Let everything be at ease, without candles and other romantic excesses. Girlfriend will like if you make dinner without any hints of intimacy. You must understand that it is always better when you are given something, but the giver does not expect anything in return.

 

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6 Responses to “What to do When a girl is Visiting You for the First Time”

  • Bapak:

    I would prefer to read an article like – What to do When a dictator is Visiting Another Dictator for the First Time.

    Can we stay focus?

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  • TIPS:

    When a girl visits you for the first time,note the things below.

    1.How she treats your family members (parents,siblings,grandparents) and your family pet (cat,puppy,iguana,fish,hamster). It’s a good indicator of how she will treat them if you ever marry her.

    2.Whether she likes your humble home.If she’s not comfortable with your flat now,then she may expect you to get a condo next time. You wouldn’t want someone who’s too demanding.

    3.Let her have the tv remote.If she prefers MTV and the like as opposed to Sky, Bloomberg etc,then chances are she’s not really interested to know what’s happening around her. This isn’t a perfect world and we’re affected by events in and out of SG so you cannot afford to not care.

    4.Talk to her about recent events,especially the Malaysian election and upcoming Kim-Trump meeting. If her first point of reference is MSM then you know she’s probably shallow due to many years of brainwashing.Do you wanna to spend the rest of your life with a shallow woman?

    5.Whether she bothers to carry the plate to the kitchen after a meal,assuming you or your mum cook for her or whether she just leaves it there.Helps tell whether she’s responsible.

    6.Whether she knows how to use the chopstick (Chinese) properly or is comfortable using her hand (non Chinese) to eat. This tells you how much she knows about culture or whether she’s comfortable with it.Some use fork and spoon because they’re ashamed of their own culture.Do you want to be with someone who isn’t proud of their own heritage?

    Life’s too short and we’re busy with work/study so we can’t afford to spend time with people who will only waste our time.

    Although it’s only the first time,you still wanna know whether she’s worth seeing again.

    So remember what I said.

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  • HarderTruths:

    Why is this article here? This is not a dating site.

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  • Bapak:

    You have given some very sound advices to the youngsters on dating. What’s your take on government? Let’s hear from you.

    TIPS:
    When a girl visits you for the first time,note the things below.

    1.How she treats your family members (parents,siblings,grandparents) and your family pet (cat,puppy,iguana,fish,hamster). It’s a good indicator of how she will treat them if you ever marry her.

    2.Whether she likes your humble home.If she’s not comfortable with your flat now,then she may expect you to get a condo next time. You wouldn’t want someone who’s too demanding.

    3.Let her have the tv remote.If she prefers MTV and the like as opposed to Sky, Bloomberg etc,then chances are she’s not really interested to know what’s happening around her. This isn’t a perfect world and we’re affected by events in and out of SG so you cannot afford to not care.

    4.Talk to her about recent events,especially the Malaysian election and upcoming Kim-Trump meeting. If her first point of reference is MSM then you know she’s probably shallow due to many years of brainwashing.Do you wanna to spend the rest of your life with a shallow woman?

    5.Whether she bothers to carry the plate to the kitchen after a meal,assuming you or your mum cook for her or whether she just leaves it there.Helps tell whether she’s responsible.

    6.Whether she knows how to use the chopstick (Chinese) properly or is comfortable using her hand (non Chinese) to eat. This tells you how much she knows about culture or whether she’s comfortable with it.Some use fork and spoon because they’re ashamed of their own culture.Do you want to be with someone who isn’t proud of their own heritage?

    Life’s too short and we’re busy with work/study so we can’t afford to spend time with people who will only waste our time.

    Although it’s only the first time,you still wanna know whether she’s worth seeing again.

    So remember what I said.

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  • It's that simple:

    In our context, when she comes to your house, it’s 60% consented. And if she comes into your room, it’s 200% consented. Nothing of your messy description. She likes you, anything can do, and if She don’t like you, even the Palace won’t do. After the good job, she cooks and wash for you… it’s that simple.

    Don’t need to be so stressed out.

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  • Hermit:

    Hermit, lack of self-confidence and ugly, PERIOD!

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