Different ways to pass an opinion

Most people give their views in the wrong way. It should their bad upbringing. It should be avoided.

Here are some different ways to pass an opinion.

a) Pass your opinion on the issue, without passing any judgment on the person who raised the original issue. Be polite and give your reasons for holding a differing view.

b) Pass your judgment on that person, but due it elsewhere

c) Pass your judgment in front of him, e.g. Facebook

I adopt the first approach.

I avoid the second approach. I might do it occasionally. For example, in the recent episode on the Vietnam “invasion” of Cambodia in 1978, I said that LHL post had offended the two countries, but I avoid passing any judgment of LHL. I might have implied that it was unwise of him to make that post, but it is not a judgment.

The third approach is rude and disrespectful. I never go to anybody Facebook page and pass any judgment of them.

However, I frequently get people coming to my Facebook page to pass judgment on me. Some of them are paid to do so, but there are others who do it out of habit and bad upbringing. They do not realize that it is rude and disrespectful.

 

Tan Kin Lian

 

 

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25 Responses to “Different ways to pass an opinion”

  • HarderTruths:

    TKL

    Don;t tell me what I can do and can’t.

    If you want to become a minor deity with that power – then join the pappies and get elected.

    Should not be too hard for you to do -you seem to have their way of thinking.

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  • TKL go hide:

    The truth is, no one need to listen to you or be obliged to do so.

    The way I see it are; Either you failed to gain the respect from the public or you lack the Respect from them due to your own upbringing or your silly articles or both.

    When you continue to do what “most people” don’t appreciate, what do you expect from them. For example, calling others as “bad upbringing”, is it failing your own category “a” of your own silly listing?

    I would say, it’s a blessing that you are not voted in.

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  • don't be stupid, tan kin lian:

    a) Pass your opinion on the issue, without passing any judgment on the person who raised the original issue. Be polite and give your reasons for holding a differing view.

    The opinion cannot be separated from the person.

    pap clown abused power, as told by Mr Lee Hsien Yang and Dr Lee Wei Ling, then, without doubt Mr Lee Hsien Yang and Dr Lee Wei Ling meant pap clown the person has abused power. The two is one and the same thing.

    Just like our opinion on your article is you are stupid, which means you are stupid as a person in our opinion. Hope you can see now why you have been stupid in your post.

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  • TruBlu:

    However, I frequently get people coming to my Facebook page to pass judgment on me. Some of them are paid to do so, but there are others who do it out of habit and bad upbringing. They do not realize that it is rude and disrespectful.

    Tan Kin Lian
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    mr tan,what do you think LKY called sgs DAFT?
    what do you think our gahmen say we are xenophobic,are you xenophobic?

    sometimes,when it comes to *HORRIBLE* people,we must tell it into their *FAECES*,sorry for being rude,i mean faces???

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  • Pot calling kettle black!:

    TKL : when you say that people visit your FB to pass judgement on you, they either do it out of habit or they have a bad upbringing. Hello, if this is not making judgement on others – what is? People who live in glass houses should not throw stones! Understand?

    In any case, if you want the limelight, you should be prepared to be criticized. If not, you should remain quiet and just enjoy your retirement. I know I am older than you so I am telling you this for your own good. Respect has to be earned and not demanded.

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  • patriot of TUMASIK:

    Tan Ahhhh!!!…you are crossing the line once too often leh!!!

    How could they be WORSE or brought up badly…when a father & son PM (pig Brains) passed judgement on others mostly INNOCENT Patriots & Nationalists…with no recourse, if there is it is of NO USE when they all Beholden deciders…

    So, ah tan ahhhhh!!! KNOW that public figures and seekers are FairGame and that includes you!!!

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  • TKL a pathological Hypocrite:

    I thought he ever called some TRE readers here ‘deplorable’?
    More than judgement. He is A HYPOCRITE!

    Pot calling kettle black!:
    TKL : when you say that people visit your FB to pass judgement on you, they either do it out of habit or they have a bad upbringing. Hello, if this is not making judgement on others – what is? People who live in glass houses should not throw stones! Understand?

    In any case, if you want the limelight, you should be prepared to be criticized. If not, you should remain quiet and just enjoy your retirement. I know I am older than you so I am telling you this for your own good. Respect has to be earned and not demanded.

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  • tan kin lian, no brains:

    HarderTruths:
    TKL

    Don;t tell me what I can do and can’t.

    If you want to become a minor deity with that power – then join the pappies and get elected.

    Should not be too hard for you to do -you seem to have their way of thinking.

    TKL go hide:
    The truth is, no one need to listen to you or be obliged to do so.

    The way I see it are; Either you failed to gain the respect from the public or you lack the Respect from them due to your own upbringing or your silly articles or both.

    When you continue to do what “most people” don’t appreciate, what do you expect from them. For example, calling others as “bad upbringing”, is it failing your own category “a” of your own silly listing?

    I would say, it’s a blessing that you are not voted in.

    don't be stupid, tan kin lian: The opinion cannot be separated from the person.

    pap clown abused power, as told by Mr Lee Hsien Yang and Dr Lee Wei Ling, then, without doubt Mr Lee Hsien Yang and Dr Lee Wei Ling meant pap clown the person has abused power. The two is one and the same thing.

    Just like our opinion on your article is you are stupid, which means you are stupid as a person in our opinion. Hope you can see now why you have been stupid in your post.

    TruBlu:
    However, I frequently get people coming to my Facebook page to pass judgment on me. Some of them are paid to do so, but there are others who do it out of habit and bad upbringing. They do not realize that it is rude and disrespectful.

    Tan Kin Lian
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    mr tan,what do you think LKY called sgs DAFT?
    what do you think our gahmen say we are xenophobic,are you xenophobic?

    sometimes,when it comes to *HORRIBLE* people,we must tell it into their *FAECES*,sorry for being rude,i mean faces???

    patriot of TUMASIK:
    Tan Ahhhh!!!…you are crossing the line once too often leh!!!

    How could they be WORSE or brought up badly…when a father & son PM (pig Brains) passed judgement on others mostly INNOCENT Patriots & Nationalists…with no recourse, if there is it is of NO USE…

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  • Darth Vader:

    tkl, when you say someone has poor upbringing, you are passing judgment on him. Likewise, you can post your lunatic ravings all you want; they’re just your opinions after all. However, post them publicly, and people WILL judge them, and YOU obviously, since your ravings reflect what’s on your mind if anyone can it that. Finally, NOBODY cares about WHAT you think of them, because as far as we are all concerned, you are an irrelevant nobody

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  • Philosopher's two cents worth:

    “We only labor to stuff the memory, but we leave the conscience and the understanding unfurnished and void… He who establishes his argument by noise and (force of) command shows that his reason is weak… I prefer the company of peasants because they have not been educated sufficiently to reason incorrectly.”
    - Michel de Montaigne

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  • Must Read This TKL:

    Mr TanKinLian
    You are really the archetypal Emperor with No Clothes.
    I would suggest to you that those who habitually praise you in your Facebook as wise, are merely trying to accommodate you, since on FB identity are immediately traceable. So you think you are well liked and respected in your own FB Court. But hey, here in Temasek Review you will see you have but no clothes on.
    You have NO RIGHTS to implicate a person’s parents just because you find him rude. How dare you say that a person has poor upbringing when he insults you!!!!!! Criticise the person NOT HIS PARENTS. You are no different than the gangster who shouts Fiavg Your Mother Father. Leave your enemies parents alone and deal with the enemy objectively!
    Are you surprised, are you going to defend yourself or will you do a self-reflection? Hi-Five and take care, other than above you are still a good Singaporean.

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  • Unnecessary Comments:

    TKL, you are fortunate to be able to have some fans to share or comments in your FB, yet you want to lay down rules of your own? Please be reminded that you are nobody to teach society what to do.

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  • UniQ:

    Basically all bulls.

    If one cannot take criticisms at its extreme, one not fit to stand for public office or public narratives.

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  • vincent tan:

    CyberBullying !?
    thats what my kids come home crying and need papa mummy attention!
    oi ! a budding grown-up politician crying like an innocent toddler…
    can’t stand the heat . please F..off. or on a kinder note..
    >>>>>> please leave lor <<<<<<<<
    let braver men and women play here…
    lucky you are not violently vulgarly abused
    on behalf of well-informed and wise tre readers
    regaeds to baby TKL

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  • Thats standard of 30%:

    Well, u should know the 30% standard.

    Some here pro china fans.
    Some here support WP, some support SDP, some support NSP, some support oppies for the sake of support.
    Some support a coalition while some dont.
    Some believe TRE to be over MSM even it failed to report Mr LHY son same sex marriage.
    Some talk alot but when its time to action in HLP, always hiding away from plain sight. One hides in Australia.
    Someone said to report Mr CI to police, but when need to show face suddenly MIA.
    …and so on ….

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  • is tkl really that stupid ???:

    Many in coffee shop never stopped laughing at tan kin lian. Some even call him a blinking fool.

    Reading his piece, we do say tan kin lian sure as hell stupid. Probably this explains the Dr Tan CB crowd in proclaiming tan kin lian as the vote spoiler.

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  • patriot of TUMASIK:

    Darth Vader:
    tkl, when you say someone has poor upbringing, you are passing judgment on him. Likewise, you can post your lunatic ravings all you want; they’re just your opinions after all. However, post them publicly, and people WILL judge them, and YOU obviously, since your ravings reflect what’s on your mind if anyone can it that. Finally, NOBODY cares about WHAT you think of them, because as far as we are all concerned, you are an irrelevant nobody

    sorry DV you are wrong… he is TRYING to be SOMEBODY or he thought he was somebody once upon a time leh!!!

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  • Honorary HLAS TKL:

    Netizens, shall we honour TKL with HLAS short for Hypocrite It loud Arsehole for all his contributions from his AS. The award is free for him to use in all his future correspondence n if he so desires, he can use it in his Faceboo as Honorary HLAS Txx Kyy Lzzz.
    Many wonder whether he was edged in by his po master to split votes from TCB another ex plp but more superior n has the mean but more so guts to break away from the po grib. To be wary of public comments like his po masters, he should like all his po masters not display aggressively his hunger, greed, envy in public. A kind advice overheard from kopitian ah peh n ah ma is “go hide under the skirt but as they notice unfortunately, he has nothing even to attract miss gorilla.

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  • Bad Boy:

    Freedom of expression , freedom of speech , …

    Let Mr Tan KL speak.

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  • But:

    @ Many in coffee shop never stopped laughing at tan kin lian. Some even call him a blinking fool.

    But Bringing laughters and amusements to many is better than bringing hate or anger.

    Well , 也算有功德.

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  • What Butt?:

    Laughing at something ‘funny’ crafted by a smart mind is no problem. It is about laughing at something ‘stupid’ thought to be pearls of wisdom that’s the issue. Don’t read too much of TKL’s thoughts or you become like him.

    But:
    @ Many in coffee shop never stopped laughing at tan kin lian. Some even call him a blinking fool.

    But Bringing laughters and amusements to many is better than bringing hate or anger.

    Well , 也算有功德.

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  • But:

    @ What Butt

    But never the less, laughing is still laughing.

    Last time Jim carrey , stephen chow, even Mr Bean so stupid, people still laugh.

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  • tan kin lian so ffffing stupid:

    But:
    @ What Butt

    But never the less, laughing is still laughing.

    Last time Jim carrey , stephen chow, even Mr Bean so stupid, people still laugh.

    Disagree, bro.

    Jim carry Stephen cow even Mr Bun they are not stupid, but, as mentioned by one TRE reader, Laughing at something ‘funny’ crafted by a smart mind is no problem. It is about laughing at something ‘stupid’ thought to be pearls of wisdom that’s the issue. Don’t read too much of TKL’s thoughts or you become like him.

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  • But:

    Everybody entitled to their opinions , their own views.

    Regardless, at least Mr Tan dare to express what he thinks.

    Better than pro PH fans keeping quiet on the latest gay video fiasco.
    Better than pro duterte fans keeping quiet on his closet disclosure that he use to be gay.

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  • little india riot:

    But:
    Everybody entitled to their opinions , their own views.

    Regardless, at least Mr Tan dare to express what he thinks.

    Better than pro PH fans keeping quiet on the latest gay video fiasco.
    Better than pro duterte fans keeping quiet on his closet disclosure that he use to be gay.

    Some like puss*. Some like arse. What is the problem?

    If no like arse, just stick with puss*.

    How has PH supporters who like arse got to do with gay video scandal?

    What has duterte fans who like arse got to do with being gay?

    We like puss* ONLY. but as long as the arse liker votes OPPO, we no problem with him or her. This is our position.

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