Give up a child for adoption

If a family is in financial distress and is not able to provide for their children, it is better for them to give a child for adoption by other parents who can better provide for the child.

I share this story of a wealthy family who have adopted children.

Mr. and Mrs. X had three sons. They wanted a daughter very much.

They get to know of a family who has a daughter that they are not able to raise. The adopted the daughter and treated her very well, very much like their own.

The adopted children treated her adopted parents as their real parents, and did not want to contact her biological parents.

One of their sons married but could not have any children. Mr and Mrs X found a daughter for them to adopt. They raised the daughter very much like their own.

It does not really matter who the biological parents are. The child will learn to be part of the family of their adopted parents. Some may want to know their biological parents out of curiosity, but they know that it is the adopted parents that love and raise them.

We should be more open to the concept of adoption. It is a good way to give a better life to children from poor families and to remove the financial stress to their actual parents.

In the old days, many poor families give their children for adoption by wealth families. It worked well.

 

Tan Kin Lian

 

 

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7 Responses to “Give up a child for adoption”

  • patriot of TUMASIK:

    A baby unborn or born is a child of the Universe Created by God in His Image…Precious in the eyes of the Biological mother or Adopted…

    it must “NEVER be LEEgally Aborted” …the Convent in Town or better known as Town Convent CONverted into a place of SIN & LUST??? was a place where babies were left at the doorsteps to be well brought up as Orphans and later adopted or became useful CITIZENS when they grow up.

    Early or Pioneer Singaporeans normally will have MORE than TWO and should they be financially strapped adoption by neighbours irrespective of RACE is common…BUT in most cases the more the merrier to create a Family of Joy & Love with a few exceptions…

    all that is needed is an extra pair of Chopstick or Spoon to welcome the new arrival with everyone chipping in by reducing their intake of food but DEFINITELY not going hungry or starving…

    A Bastard Murdered 1,000,000 unborn since 1974 when the STOP @ TWO was enforced or SUFFER the CONsequences…

    Today the System call for more Pro-Creation and according to a Hypocritical Christian Minister you can make babies in a closet too…how does she face God every Sunday I wonder??? when LEEgal Abortion is Performed every day with a Record low of 26,000+++ in the year 2016 GLEEFULLY Headlined in the SHITTY TIMES…

    and what is the recourse for the Lost Generation of a Million???…replaced by Dubious Foreign Talent lor!!!

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  • the best advice for 70% sheep:

    stop voting pap. unless S$m or on pap S$m gravy train, voting pap is as good as struggling on bread and butter issues.

    if die die must vote pap, then, don’t marry. if die die must marry, then, don’t procreate. sure as hell under pap it is costly to marry, buy that HDB rental lease, and send junior to pap kindergarten.

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  • Flabbergasted:

    Confirmed senile old fart.

    Instead of asking the ungrateful government to take care of us, true blue citizens, you are suggesting us to go back to the practices of the manchurian days.

    Remember, we worked our guts out to build this nation, or whatever is left of it. This government is destroying everything.

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  • Reality Check:

    I wonder whether this kind of adoption will work in this present time where communication between both parties is possible at the press of a button, where people are more educated and where the rich is not doing something out of kindness but often to want to ‘own’ something which they could produce by their own effort, following which, would naturally want to cut off contact with the biological parents after adoption. Also, It would be an insult to the poor, for the rich in Singapore to even want to think of doing this. It is like taking many many steps backward in time when people were dirt poor, where financial help was probably non existent then. Presently, the rich can donate their money providing basic necessities to the needy family instead. It would certainly be a noble thing to do. One do not need to be lacking and looking to adopt a certain boy or girl just to be a benefactor. I was at the Meet the People’s Session recently and saw rice and other food stuff being distributed to needy residents. This is a better way to help the poor rather than have the rich, for their selfish reason, ‘Take’ away someone’s son or daughter and make the poor parents even more miserable. Also, it is probably a business transaction, most likely running foul of the law if such adoption happens in this present time. What worked in the past may no longer be practical under present circumstances. I doubt it resulted in a realistic win win situation for both parties whether in the past or present. This is especially so for the Biological Parents who will sadly remember and will always miss the child they gave away for as long as they live.

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  • Python 5:

    patriot of TUMASIK: A Bastard Murdered 1,000,000 unborn since 1974 when the STOP @ TWO was enforced or SUFFER the CONsequences…

    my close friend has 2 brothers.
    he told me the youngest one has a lot of difficulty getting into primary school. but when come to enlistment for that fkkking pooh boh phua CB SAF, things move very fast and efficient.

    Hitler should have that bloody fking bast**d LKY exterminated in a gas chamber in Auschwitz.

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  • Python 5:

    people can capitalised on this…just make babies and sell them as high price commodities and then retire comfortably.

    Reality Check:
    I wonder whether this kind of adoption will work in this present time where communication between both parties is possible at the press of a button, where people are more educated and where the rich is not doing something out of kindness but often to want to ‘own’ something which they could produce by their own effort, following which, would naturally want to cut off contact with the biological parents after adoption. Also, It would be an insult to the poor, for the rich in Singapore to even want to think of doing this. It is like taking many many steps backward in time when people were dirt poor, where financial help was probably non existent then. Presently, the rich can donate their money providing basic necessities to the needy family instead. It would certainly be a noble thing to do. One do not need to be lacking and looking to adopt a certain boy or girl just to be a benefactor. I was at the Meet the People’s Session recently and saw rice and other food stuff being distributed to needy residents. This is a better way to help the poor rather than have the rich, for their selfish reason, ‘Take’ away someone’s son or daughter and make the poor parents even more miserable. Also, it is probably a business transaction, most likely running foul of the law if such adoption happens in this present time. What worked in the past may no longer be practical under present circumstances. I doubt it resulted in a realistic win win situation for both parties whether in the past or present. This is especially so for the Biological Parents who will sadly remember and will always miss the child they gave away for as long as they live.

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  • patriot of TUMASIK:

    Python 5: my close friend has 2 brothers.
    he told me the youngest one has a lot of difficulty getting into primary school. but when come to enlistment for that fkkking pooh boh phua CB SAF, things move very fast and efficient.

    Hitler should have that bloody fking bast**d LKY exterminated in a gas chamber in Auschwitz.

    Bro, the Japs would have had done the JOB by shooting the bast**d had he not CONvinced them he speaks Japanese and can be an asset as a translator on Alleid Forces News in BBC…that is a bast**d – coward & trait** true FORM as evil as they come after Hitler

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